Book Review: Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows


So first of all, do not get alarmed by the title and it might be a bit misleading. I even had a few people looking at me with concern when I told them what I was reading. I would not whip it out and start reading it in a public place or even in front of my parents but hey that is the beauty of reading an e-copy. No one knows whatever you are reading.

Unless you announce it all over the internet or your blog like I do. So here it goes: how Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows turned out to be?

About the book


Book Name: Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows

Author: Balli Kaur Jaswal

Genre: Fiction – Romance, Drama

Characters: Nikki, Kulwinder, Jason, Mindi, Olive,

Setting: Southall, London, the UK


Meet Nikki a law school dropout who has finally gotten out of her over bearing immigrant mother’s house trying to make her try at being independent. She tries to distance herself from her Sikh community that is too traditional and sexist for her liking. Impetuously she signs up to teach Creative English course for the widows of her Punjabi community to earn some quick bucks.

A gross miscommunication leads to her teaching basic English to the lonely widows and most of them turn out to be illiterates. During the classes Nikki realizes these women are much more interested in oral story telling especially erotic ones.

While the traditional Sikh community considers these as scandalous acts especially for widows to be involved in, the women with Nikki’s help continue their lessons. They try and keep it a secret from the ‘Brotherhood’ a self appointed moral police who take it upon themselves to protect the virtue of the woman in their clan.

There is another much more interesting sub plot involving another younger woman who had ‘committed suicide’ after disagreeing with her husband’s way of living and was generally ‘too modern’. Did the Brotherhood have a hand in her death? Does Nikki’s attempt to bring in empowerment to these widows through erotica meet with the same hatred? You will have to read the Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows on your own to find the answers.

My thoughts

Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows is by far one of the most ‘un-put-down-able’ book I read so far this year. I read through it fast and still couldn’t get to the last page quick enough. I needed to know the answers right then and there. But sensibility prevailed and I didn’t peek into the last page to find the answers. The writing was crisp and fast paced.

Yes there are some ‘erotic stories in them but they are written tastefully (is that correct word here?) and not cringe worthy at all. But if you do not wish to read them, you can skip them and it will not hinder the flow of the novel at all.

It has been a while since I loved the side characters and Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows has a bunch of well written and quirky characters. While I didn’t like Nikki’s holier-than-thou attitude, I was able to relate to her at some point (or did I?) coming from a desi background and all. She reminded of the small sexist things that we do because our tradition demands it and how hapless women who can’t and won’t fight against them are. Also I was reminded me of the BBC’s sitcom ‘Citizen Khan’ and I am definitely gonna watch them again in a bit.

Bottom – line

If you are looking for something light and funny, or something that might make think about thoughtful or erotic, Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows will fit your bill either way. It is funny. It is fast paced. It talks about woman empowerment. It has it all. Read it already, I say.

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  1. I added this to my TBR after Sim @Flipping Through the Pages talked about. I’m super curious about reading it and think it’s great for a book to talk about more ‘sex/relationship’ stuff, particularly from a cultural view.

    So sad that the title would put some people off though 😟

    • If you get a chance do pick this book up Dani. Even if the title might put off some people, it is worth the attempt.

  2. I would love to read this one, I’ve seen so many good reviews, but I was sold before I even read more than one 😀 unfortunately, I can’t track its sales for some reason cause ereaderIQ doesn’t find this book xD

  3. Okay I have to admit I am intrigued. Especially because while I have heard a lot about this book, I had no idea what it was about. And yes it does sound interesting, so I am definitely going to check it out. Thank you! 🙂

  4. Heard alot about this book nowadays. Sounds interesting. Great review. Loved how you described the book without giving away the crux

  5. This sounds like a great book – and I never judge anyone on the books their read, because you never know if the title is misleading like in this case or why the person reads the book – for example I want to read L. Ron Hubbard’s Scientology book but just out of curiosity.

    • The title was weird and would have kept me away if not our solid recommendations from other bookworms. And I am gonna run to your blog and check your review right away.


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